Recently forcing myself to break down the accumulating cardboard boxes from the corner of my office, I wondered why I was so reluctant to pitch or recycle them, rather preferring to keep them piled high, every shape and size, gathering dust in a corner.
The cardboard box "commandment" of never throwing away a box, nor paper grocery bag, or any such good, usable item - we might need those "some day"....
Not fond of throwing away rubber bands, paper clips, crinkly unused envelopes, or "dry food clean" ziplock bags (understand that description?), where did my possessive (or compulsive) behavior get its birth?
Was it Timothy Egan's book "The Worst Hard Time" or Al Gore's literary contribution of "An Inconvenient Truth" or was it, as often is the fact, a lesson learned at my mother's knee. You guessed, along with me, Egan and Gore's books were provocative but long before I read either of them I learned through the experience of observing my mother's behavior. My mother who was a child of The Great Depression - who learned at her mother's knee.....not to throw it away, we might need it some day...
Ah! Well put! I learned the same lessons at the same knee. That's my excu.., er.., reason for not being able to move around or find things in my office.
ReplyDeleteThe (Geezer) Dude
Ah ... kindred spirit ... raised with the same messages given me by my Dutch mom. I struggle so with letting go ... of so many things for such "good" reasons.
ReplyDeleteI'm doing my best to simplify my life ... clear away clutter ... and stop the insanity of cleaning and stacking cottage cheese cartons and butter tubs that once got used in my classroom, but now that I'm happily retired ... simply collect dust and take up space.
My hopes were raised with the city gave us "recycling bins" and asked us to sort our trash. Alas, the only plastic containers they'll accept as recyclable are those with a #1 inside the triangle on the bottom (and I believe there are 9 such categories). Sigh! I need to find an old fashioned teacher who still has a "paint center" in her classroom.
Geezer and story teller - Thanks for your comments - obviously all "children of the great depression" whether we were born yet or not!
ReplyDeleteah, yes, that mother's knee. i have to ask...do you also have a crumpled tissue in every pocket of every coat and sweater???
ReplyDeletei believe i was fully broken of that habit after emptying every pocket in my mother's closet when we moved her.
My mum never used to throw away a match until it was burned down to the last fragment of wood. She kept them in a saucer by the oven, and lit them from the pilot light on the oven-top.
ReplyDeleteTess - you obviously have a step up on the rest of us with THAT tip. I can only imagine what our future children will have to say about what WE have taught them...
ReplyDeleteStoryteller - I've not only dispensed with the margarine tubs I've pretty much given up eating any of that stuff so I don't have to work with those left overs. Alas, I still feel awful throwing my large yogurt tubs away...
Lucy - Oh my, the kleenex thing is going to be a while before I can give up that one. Every pocket, every purse, extras everywhere!
Geezer - After the cardboard boxes went from the office, I was totally inspired to get busy on the rest of it:)
Thanks everybody!
thinking about your previous post re: the airplane/airports, it's probably a good idea you hang onto the kleenex thing!
ReplyDeleteActually, the "tubs" in question contained "light creamed cheese" for I've given up margerine myself (preferring real butter when the cravings arise and the sour dough smells are too tempting to resist). Guess my fingers & mind failed to communicate previously.
ReplyDeleteKleenex in every pocket ... and always in my purse. Yes, I confess I'm still trying to break this habit. It helps to wear clothes without pockets, but that leads to other complications. :)
As for what kids will say about us, I shudder to think.