Don't get me wrong, these visitors/family are the easiest to entertain or to just BE with of any people I know. The release for me is that I let go of my compulsion to control - relax, release. Relax, release, enjoy these precious moments with many of those that I hold dearest in my life. There does have to be some planning, like food but mostly I need to remember that I am not personally responsible for their having a good time. They would not have me fret over any detail, whether or not we snorkel, or dine out, or drive to a far beach. The teens will enjoy, they will have fun in ways I could never imagine. We all will have fun and the laughter and the joy of our love will convince me once more that release, release, release of control is freeing:)) I must remember above all to SAVOR the joy of this family I love and treasure!