Late last Sunday a.m. under threatening skies with just a touch of sunlight now and then, we attended the
Whitman College graduation ceremony here in Walla Walla. A beautiful
small town affair - bleachers, folding chairs and blankets on the lush
college lawn, stately trees overseeing us all with small children and
dogs perfectly comfortable in the outdoor setting. Red fire truck with
EMS at the ready, flower vendors for those last minute bouquets, and
the town band playing lively getting ready music and then the
procession of students, professors, past graduates and college hierarchy
marched in to cheering and applause - truly a picturesque scene!
As the "friendship family" to an
international student for his past four years in Walla Walla we were his
representative family; his mother in Bulgaria and sister in England
were unable to attend and we were it besides his many fraternity pals
and fellow student admirers. We felt honored and fortunate to be
representing this young man and duly proud of his college achievements.
The prior Thursday evening we
entertained our friend and his friend for dinner at a lovely WW dining
spot. As they arrived so handsome, so beautiful, so full of life and
expectation - I commented to my spouse that I was in awe of their mere
presence as young adults well educated and comfortable to enter the
social sphere or whatever sphere they happen to choose or land in. We
had a lovely dinner full of conversation, friendship, reflection and
anticipation. Four adults sharing dinner and life - special!
Back to commencement - the diplomas were
handed over, each graduate recognized and cheered by their different
audience particpants and then the reverse order took over for the
recessional.......the rain held off, the gowned scholars and alumnae
smiling and laughing with probably some of the giddiness of college
memories as well as the calling out of their names from us waving and
cheering and then the seniors - the celebrities for the day - marched
triumphantly out and off the scene. Brilliant students, opportunities
galore - they WILL change the world, success at hand......as they
recessed......for me they suddenly shed their young adulthood and became
as though young children once more - perhaps even graduating from
preschool or middle school - they were STARTING OVER, commenceing onto
yet another unknown frontier in their lives - so prepared, yet so
vulnerable.
I prayed and do pray for them all - what an amazing time in their lives - I wonder as they must - "whadda they do now?"
Oh yes that question that can often leave me teary, confused or frightened... "whadda they/we do now." lovely post! xo
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